Eight months ago I never thought that I would be in the position that I am today. Today I am attending my dad’s wedding. The past eight months have been a whirlwind of life changing events and emotions. Experiencing my parent’s divorce has been the worst time of my life. I have learned five very important things that although do not take away the pain that I feel, have helped to ease this burden and give me hope. 1. Agency enables us not to make the same mistakes. The idea of agency is sometimes a very hard pill to swallow. Agency is the ability to choose and act for ourselves. The reality of agency is that sometimes people’s choices do hurt others. Agency is essential to our mortal existence, and although we can make choices that hurt others, we can also make choices that bring us closer to Jesus Christ. 2 Nephi 2:27 reads, “Wherefore, men are free according to the flesh… and they are free to choose liberty and eternal life, through the great Mediator of all men, or to choose